Why Encouragement from Others Can Change a Child’s Entire Life

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Why Encouragement from Others Can Change a Child’s Entire Life

Encouragement is not just about motivation—it is about love. Love transforms. Love strengthens. Love elevates. And when a child feels loved, they become brave. They begin to believe in who they are and what they can become.

Sometimes, the only thing standing between a child and the life they dream of is one gentle voice saying, “You can do it.” Encouragement is not a small gesture. It is not a simple smile or a kind word. Encouragement has the power to shift the course of a child’s future—to awaken confidence where there was doubt, to plant hope where there was fear, and to open a path where none seemed possible. In Oh My!… I Can Fly! – The Birdie Story, Michele Gajdzis brings this truth to life through the touching journey of Barry, a small bird who learns that he was created to soar long before he believes it himself. His growth only becomes possible because others see what he cannot yet see—and gently help him discover it. At the start of the book, Barry sits in a locked cage on top of a mountain, watching other birds glide across the sky. He dreams of flying too, but in his mind, it feels impossible. He has no feathers. No freedom. No understanding of who he truly is. And most of all, no belief that he could ever rise above the limits that surround him. His longing is real, but his confidence is silent. This is where the author begins portraying the emotional reality of many children: they carry dreams within them, but self-doubt convinces them that those dreams are out of reach.

Barry’s journey changes the moment Wally Bird arrives. Bright, colorful, and full of warmth, Wally becomes the first voice of encouragement in Barry’s life. When he looks at Barry, he doesn’t see a featherless bird trapped in a cage—he sees an eagle created to soar. Wally’s uplifting words plant a seed that Barry doesn’t fully understand but desperately needs. Encouragement often works the same way in real life. A child may not yet grasp their potential, but the simple assurance that it exists can transform their thinking. Wally gives Barry something priceless: the belief that there is more to him than his fears. Wally doesn’t stop there. Day after day, he returns with Promise Feathers—each one marked with golden letters that Barry cannot yet read. These feathers symbolize the internal gifts children carry within them: qualities waiting to be discovered at the right moment. Even though Barry doesn’t understand their purpose, he holds onto them. Encouragement is not a one-time act; it is steady, consistent, and patient. Through Wally, the author teaches that children grow when someone walks with them, not just when someone speaks to them.

Soon, another encourager appears: Kenny Bird, the majestic eagle who becomes Barry’s trainer. Kenny doesn’t only speak supportive words—he teaches Barry how to practice, how to flap his wings, how to grow stronger. This is another powerful message from the author: encouragement must be both emotional and practical. Children need affirming words, but they also need guidance. They need someone willing to stand beside them as they learn and make mistakes. When Barry tries to flap his wings and fails, Kenny doesn’t criticize him. Instead, he cheers, “Don’t give up, don’t give up.” That simple phrase keeps Barry trying. It acts as the bridge between fear and determination. For many children, this is the difference between quitting and continuing.  But encouragement is not only about correcting the child’s weaknesses; it’s also about reminding them of what they already possess. When Harmony Bird enters the story, she sings joyful songs that lift Barry’s spirit. She brings brightness into moments that feel heavy. Her encouragement works through joy, through music, through connection. The author’s message becomes clear: encouragement can come in many forms—soft words, steady guidance, comforting presence, or simple joy. What matters is that it reaches the child’s heart.

One of the most powerful scenes occurs when the mountain shakes and Barry’s cage finally breaks open. After all the encouragement he has received, Barry is at last free. Yet he hesitates. This moment reveals something essential: even when support opens new opportunities, children may still feel afraid. Barry steps out slowly and says, “I’m scared.” This vulnerability is not weakness—it is normal. And once again, Wally responds with patience, urging Barry to look at his Promise Feathers. Only then does Barry finally understand the meaning behind them: The blue feather stands for HOPE, the red feather stands for STRENGTH, the yellow feather stands for JOY. These truths were with him the whole time, but it took encouragement—layer upon layer—for him to truly see them. “All this time they came to show me that I am truly loved,” Barry exclaims. This is the heart of Michele Gajdzis’s message. Encouragement is not just about motivation—it is about love. Love transforms. Love strengthens. Love elevates. And when a child feels loved, they become brave. They begin to believe in who they are and what they can become.